The Gifts You Already Have: Why Success Flows from Purpose, Not Comparison
“Just because you can’t see it doesn’t mean it’s not there.” In a world that’s constantly reminding us of what we lack, it's easy to fall into the trap of looking at what others have and feeling like we're behind. We scroll past curated photos of luxurious vacations, job promotions, perfect families, and shiny new cars—and without realizing it, we start quietly berating ourselves. “Why don’t I have that?” “What am I doing wrong?” “When is it going to be my turn?” But what if the thing that sets you apart—the thing that will unlock your calling, your peace, and your purpose—has already been given to you? What if you’re walking around with a stone and a sling, and you’re too busy staring at someone else’s sword to notice? Let’s talk about that.
4/5/20254 min read


The Quiet Danger of Comparison
Comparison doesn’t always show up loudly. It creeps in quietly—when you’re looking at someone else’s progress, their possessions, their accolades. It's in the questions we ask ourselves late at night, in the pit in our stomachs when a peer seems to get ahead, and in the dissatisfaction we feel with what we have.
But comparison is based on a lie: that what God gave you is somehow less than what He gave someone else.
It’s a dangerous thing to measure your value using someone else’s blueprint. We don’t all get the same tools, but we all get the right tools—for our purpose.
David Didn’t Need a Sword
Let’s go back to one of the most well-known underdog stories in history: David and Goliath.
When David stepped onto the battlefield, he had no armor. No sword. No impressive résumé of victories. What he had was a sling, five smooth stones, and the confidence that God was with him. His brothers had dismissed him. King Saul tried to dress him in armor that didn’t fit. Goliath mocked him.
But David didn’t need to be Goliath. He didn’t need to be his brothers. He didn’t need Saul’s armor. What he needed was the faith to use what was already in his hand.
“Your servant has killed both the lion and the bear; this uncircumcised Philistine will be like one of them.” —1 Samuel 17:36
David remembered what God had already done through him. What the world saw as insignificant—just a shepherd boy with a sling—was more than enough when touched by the hand of God.
You may be looking at your life and thinking, “All I’ve got is this little thing. This quiet talent. This obscure passion.” But maybe that’s exactly what God is going to use to bring down your Goliath.
Your Sling Might Look Like Nothing to Someone Else
The world is obsessed with flash and fame. We celebrate visibility over value. Yet, when God wants to change the world, He often starts with something small, seemingly insignificant, and hidden.
Moses had a staff.
Ruth had loyalty.
The widow had a jar of oil.
The disciples had empty nets.
And David had a sling.
When we devalue what we’ve been given because it doesn’t look like what others have, we rob ourselves of purpose. That comparison often leads us to chase someone else’s dream instead of fulfilling our own.
Success Flows Tangentially
Here's something most people miss: success rarely comes from chasing success.
In fact, true success often flows tangentially—it shows up while we’re immersed in something we love, without chasing outcomes. It’s the byproduct of focus, consistency, and love for the craft.
Think about it:
The best writers often write not for fame, but because they can’t not write.
The most impactful teachers teach because they’re passionate about lighting up minds—not about pensions or prestige.
The most joyful entrepreneurs build businesses not just for money, but because they love solving problems or creating something meaningful.
And yet… so many people chase titles, degrees, and jobs for the perks. How many people become doctors just to drive a beautiful car? Or take a high-paying job only to live in quiet misery?
“When your why is weak, the work becomes heavy.”
But when you do something for the sake of itself, without an ulterior motive—something magical happens. You unlock joy. You find your groove. You enter a zone where time disappears. And in those moments, success sneaks up on you.
Purpose Over Prestige
The disciples weren’t rich. They didn’t own land or command armies. They weren’t influencers. In fact, they had almost nothing by the world’s standards.
But they had something that couldn’t be taken from them. They had presence. Peace. Purpose. Joy.
They weren’t following Jesus for the perks—because there weren’t many. They followed Him because they knew He was the reward.
“Then Peter said, ‘Look, we have left everything and followed You.’ So He said to them, ‘Assuredly, I say to you, there is no one who has left house or parents or brothers or wife or children, for the sake of the kingdom of God, who shall not receive many times more in this present time, and in the age to come eternal life.’” —Luke 18:28–30
They had nothing, yet they had everything. Because they walked with the One who owns it all.
The Illusion of Lack
Here’s the truth: you’re not behind. You’re not empty-handed. You’re not disqualified.
You might be like Hagar in the wilderness, crying in despair, not realizing the well is already there—you just need your eyes opened.
“Then God opened her eyes, and she saw a well of water.” —Genesis 21:19
Sometimes, we can’t see the provision in front of us because of the tears in our eyes. But that doesn’t mean it’s not there.
You don’t need more favor. You need more awareness. You don’t need someone else’s path. You need clarity on your own.
Start Where You Are. Use What You Have. Trust Who Sent You.
That sling in your hand? Use it. That dream that seems too small? Pursue it. That voice that says “it’s not enough”? Silence it.
Because God doesn't need a lot to do a lot. He just needs someone who’s willing to believe that what they have is already enough when touched by Him.
If David had waited until he had a sword, he never would have become king.
If the disciples had waited for guarantees, they never would have walked with Jesus.
If you’re waiting for perfect circumstances, a bigger platform, or more validation… you’ll miss what God has already placed in your hand.
Here’s What You Can Do Right Now:
🛑 Stop:
Comparing your gifts to someone else’s.
Chasing results instead of purpose.
Thinking small means insignificant.
🔄 Start:
Thanking God for what He’s already given you.
Honoring the process, even when it’s not glamorous.
Stepping into your assignment with what you already have.
Final Thought: The Truth You Can’t See Is the Truth You Can’t Be
Invisibility doesn’t mean absence.
Your purpose is real—even if it's not flashy.
Your gifts are powerful—even if they seem unremarkable.
And your success will come—not because you chased it, but because you lived with purpose, passion, and faith.
“Lord, open our eyes—so we can see what’s already there.”
If this post spoke to you, don’t keep it to yourself. Share it. Meditate on it. And most importantly—live it.
Because you already have what it takes. You just have to see it.
